Earliest Memories

So a lot of people have asked me before “What’s your earliest memory of being interested in spanking or the kink lifestyle?” My answer to that is; I really don’t remember the exact moment, I just remembered that it was at a very very young age.

I remember that the subject in itself was very fascinating and probably has something to do with the location, being in California or just the time (late 80’s, early 90’s) when parenting was taking a turn, but there wasn’t a lot of spanking going on, but in between being banned in schools and just the different parenting practices of the adults that I grew up with, spanking was just not a common occurrence…more like a myth. It was around 4-5 years old, yes that young, when I realized that I enjoyed playing different role playing games with the my friends and neighbors, and strangely enough, I always have enjoyed being the one that was tied up and had to be rescued, or kidnapped and held for ransom, things of that sort. Spanking wasn’t actually a common occurrence in my neighborhood and probably the one or two times that I actually even heard about the scenario happening I would be strangely fascinated by the stories.

I was around 8 years old when the movie (based on the Anne Rice novel) Exit to Eden with Rosie O’Donnell, Dan Aykroyd and Dana Delany came out. I remember my mother watching it on HBO when I was 8 years old and I doubt she had any idea I was watching it behind her back because obviously that wasn’t a movie for children! The moment that set off of the proverbial light bulb in my head was the scene where Dana Delaney gave a hairbrush spanking to the main character Elliott, and made him admit that he like to be spanked. The best part about that was Dana Delany’s character Miss Lisa, showing Elliot that it was okay to be different and to like things that weren’t necessarily supposed to be liked. I think that scene in that movie change my life forever. Yes I was 8 years old, and yes I was very young but I remember that moment to this day in crystal clarity.

Obviously the coming of the internet in households showed a lot of us at the time that our fascinations, curiosities and likes were not something to be ashamed of or feared.

But that’s how it all started for me how about you? What were some of the earliest memories that you have? Please feel free to leave a comment and let us know! Until next time, happy spanking!

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Exit to Eden (1994)

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The movie scene that changed my life!

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Dana Delaney was gorgeous in this movie!

Spanking Blogg’s Annual Spanking Awards!

Hey friends! Just thought I’d give a quick shout out to spank chief and his awesome job at the spanking blogg doing the annual spanking Awards!

I know several categories have already been awarded, including the best facial expression and Best Newcomer for female spankee. However, there is still an opportunity to vote for several topics including the best male and female spanker of 2015. So if you haven’t already, go and check out his blog and be sure to vote for your favorite categories in this year’s annual spanking Awards!

I know there are some people who don’t understand the kinds of things that spanking models and producers go through in creating the spanking erotica that we all enjoy. This is a great opportunity to show them our appreciation and give thanks to all the hard work they put into these blogs and spanking videos. Go nominate and vote for your favorites now!

http://www.spankingblogg.com

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Happy New Year!

Hi there fellows spankos!

Thought I’d drop in and say hi and wish you all happy New Year. It’s been a crazy year for us, there’s been a ton of changes happening in the last 6 months, but hopefully 2016 will start off on the right foot!
For those of you who don’t know and don’t follow me on twitter, last July I got out of the army after 7 years of service and after several months of searching I decided to become a truck driver! I earned my CDL and was hired by a company about a month ago now. Since then I’ve been traveling around the country seeing all the great sites
that this great country has to offer!
I love being able to see all the great natural beauty this country has to offer, and that I swore to defend while I was deployed to Iraq and Afghanistan, it kind of makes everything all worth it.

Unfortunately, with everything going on and me being gone on the road all the time, that’s left a significant drop in spanking activity between the missus and myself. Coming home in early January I hope to rectify that situation and finally get the spanking ball back rolling down the court! In the meantime, I’ll try to update more regularly as I’ll have a lot of alone time in the truck when I’m not driving, and I hope to post some pictures of not only this beautiful country, but of beautiful spanking action is well!

So thanks for stopping in and saying hi, I’m sure you’re all getting tired of me just posting updates of where I’ve been and promising to update more often, then not showing up for several months. However, I promise that I’ll start updating more regularly and actually getting some actual content up and going.

Until then, I leave you with some pictures of some of the more beautiful places I’ve seen in the last month or so, hope you guys have a great New Year and I look forward to perhaps meeting some of you all in 2016!

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Desolate and beautiful Wyoming

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New York City Skyline!

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The Texas Panhandle

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The Rockies on the Utah/Colorado border.

Still Kicking!

Hi spanko friends and family. Just checking in, saying hi, and letting you all know this blog still is around and kicking!
Where have we been you ask? Well that’s quite a story and there’s been a lot of life changes since last time. The biggest thing is I’m no longer a Soldier in the Army, and we are no longer in Texas. We moved to a very very small town in middle Tennessee in July and we’re still getting settled into the area. The Mrs. was able to get a job at a sandwich shop, and I was trying unsuccessfully for weeks to find a new career. Finally one day, I got an offer that was too interesting to pass up…truck driving. I signed a one year contract with a trucking company and in return they are sending me to truck driving school, and footing the bill. I’ve always wanted to give trucking a try because my father and several of my aunt’s and uncle’s were drivers. Plus, I’ve always wanted to drive all over the country and finally see what I’ve been missing. I start driving school in 3 weeks and hopefully by the holidays I’ll finally be out making a living again!
I hope to start updating the blog more often, but right now it’s particularly hard doing things with just a cell phone and no internet at the moment. All I can say is please be patient and stick around until we get life sorted out. If you still want your spanko fix from A Spanko World, you can always follow me, Jon Welts, on Twitter and Tumblr. I try to post regularly, if not daily, to both so please feel free to follow and say hi! I really enjoy making new friends in the spanking and BDSM community, so please don’t be shy!
Anyways, I hope everyone’s week is going well. It’s hump day and it’s shaping up to being a decent weekend here. I’ll leave you with a picture I recently took. I couldn’t pass up the lighting and seminars-artistic opportunity.

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Waiting for a spanking!

Cornertime Pic Of The Week: 5/18/2015

Hey friends, just thought I’d say hi and try to catch up a little on some blogging action. Hope everyone is doing well with this spring transition. The Mrs. and I are really excited to have a permanent change of scenery in a couple weeks, and that leads me to the lovely scenery I wanted to share with you today! :)

Dana Specht and Sarah Gregory (Photo Credit: Sarah Gregory Spanking and Momma Spankings)

Dana Specht and Sarah Gregory (Photo Credit: Sarah Gregory Spanking and Momma Spankings)

Here we have an oldie, but goody from Momma Spankings, with Sarah Gregory and Dana Specht. I like this picture a lot for many reasons. First being that it’s taken from a movie with a very real punishment involved. Second, this movie was filmed while I first began pen-palling with Ms. Specht in Afghanistan, so I remember it well! And last but not least, I think there’s something very special about having your disciplinarian pull down your undies to expose your bare red bottom in the corner for the whole world to see! There’s something very embarrassing and helpless about it, and Sarah’s facial expression captures it well.

That’s it for today folks, but stay tuned for more, as I’m already cooking up some new things for the future! I also notice going through the blog stats that a lot of you are interested in other aspects of the spanking and discipline lifestyle that I will try my best to touch on in the coming weeks. Definitely want to make ya’ll happy and keep coming back! Have a great Monday and happy spankings!

Whats Next For The Welts!

Hey Spankos!

The Welts are starting a huge transition! Jon is leaving the military, and we are MOVING!!!!!!!

Both of those statements are just exciting and terrifying all at the same time! Mrs’ mother is having serious health issues and we will be returning to her home state in order to reunite our family! For our privacy we will not fully discuss why we are moving and to the exact location.

But……it means great things for us as spankos and for this blog in general. We will no longer have the thumb of the military on us and we will be able to express ourselves a little more!

Our spanking lifestyle is different, every spanking issued in our house aside from birthday spankings, are discipline. Real punishments for real issues.

We will start filming some of the discipline sessions and releasing the videos. Thats right, raw, unscripted domestic discipline sessions. And we will actually be doing these for free for our loyal readers!

So in the meantime, please be patient with us as we’re going through this very complicated change in our lives. If you’d like to keep in touch with us, go ahead and leave us a comment here, or feel free to say hi on Fetlife, Twitter, and Tumblr. We’ll try to update as often as we can. Right now Jon is still in the clearing phase here at Fort Hood and we’ll be moving around the 1st of the month. Super excited, yet super nervous!

Have a great Friday and spanktastic weekend!

Love,

The Welts

New Journeys Lie Ahead.

New Journeys Lie Ahead.

Self Spanking 101: The Mind!

Hey Spankos! Ms Welts here! I know its been a long time! I have been taking a break from fetlife, message boards, and chat rooms for the last few months. I need a nice long break. We have a huge life change coming soon and while I am excited I am also overwhelmed! I am working extremely hard at my own business, and since I make everything by hand, do all the sales, pictures, online work, emails, etc. I just don’t have the energy to handle all the other sites right now! We will be making huge changes to this site soon and I hope you are as excited as we are!

Now about the title, Self-Spanking!!!!!!!

This is a highly asked set of questions, and a very common situation that nearly every spanko finds themselves in at one time or another in their life. Lets be honest, even in a relationship, spanko or not, you do think about it from time to time. Draping yourself over the side of the couch and spanking your bare butt until you can’t stand it?

Then there are those who are not in a spanking relationship, this becomes even more important.

Don’t go grabbing your hairbrush and start spanking just yet! Lets talk about ways to make your self spanking more fulfilling!

First lesson is about the mind! You want to be in the proper mindset to make it meaningful. Spanking is not as easy as people portray it in the movies.

Start out with a good, long, hard, discussion with yourself. Ask yourself a few questions!

1. Can you handle spanking yourself? Are you able to spank yourself? Not everyone is capable of self spanking! Do not feel bad if you can’t do it. You are human and we all approach things differently.

2. Do you have proper alone time to handle a spanking?

3. Do you have proper implements to use in a spanking? We will discuss this more in an implement blog. Some can use their hand and make it hard enough, others can not.

4. Do you want to do discipline or erotic self spanking? There is a huge difference from start to finish!

5. Are your motivations for trying self-spanking in the right place? Are you just trying to get spanked to be spanked? Or are you ready for taking this step in your spanking lifestyle?

6. Are you being forced into self-spanking? Self-spanking is used a lot in online relationships. If this is not something your comfortable with but a “Top,” “ER,” etc forcing the issue? Stop!

After you have had time to question what you are doing lets go over a few things to prepare!

Step 1: Deciding you need a spanking. So you have earned a spanking? Think about why you have earned the spanking. Have you been getting bad grades in college? Have you been lazy at work? Have you been mean to others? Not doing your chores? Tisk Tisk….you need a spanking. So figure out why it is that you are getting your spanking!

Step 2: Write it down! Start a journal or notebook. Write down what you have done wrong, and assign yourself a punishment. Make sure it is something you can handle and you better make sure that it is hard enough!

Step 3: Timing! Make sure you choose a time to deal with your misbehavior. Remember that spankings can be loud and you want to make sure that it is a time where no one will hear what you are doing!

Step 4: Location! Location! Location! The location of your spanking is very important, we will talk more about this in the position blog but you want a location where you can be comfortable enough to be able to reach around and handle this discipline!

In the next lesson we will discuss implements. I will show you some things that we use and where you can get some good self-spanking items!

Thank you for all the support spankos!

Ms Welts