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Hey friends, Jon here.

Between Miss Welts getting bad news from home about a family illness, and being really sick myself this week, we’re going to take several days off from blogging, chat rooms, and other social media. Basically, it’ll be difficult for anyone to reach us for several days.

Now I promise this isn’t going to be like before where I stay away from this blog for months at a time. We have a lot of projects currently in progress (yes, including the mouth-soaping project!), and one in particular I’m really excited about…another interview!

So stay tuned my spanko friends, we’re not going away for long, we just need a few days to rest and recuperate!

Yes!!! We are Going!!

Well its time announce something fun!! We will be attending the Texas All-State Spanking Party!!!

Honestly, I haven’t even told Jon that we can go yet!!! He is at work so I figured I would see how long it took him to realize it!!

If you aren’t familiar with the TASSP check out their website!
http://texasallstatespankingparty.com/

Banner from the TASSP website.

Banner from the TASSP website.

This is something we have not done before. We have both gone to smaller events separately, but have never gone to anything together and have never gone to this level of a party. Jon actually does not know because he thinks I wont go!!! This is the last party that we will still be in Texas and since I do not know what next year will hold for us, better get to it already before we can’t again!!!!

Are you going to be there? We are looking forward to meeting a lot of the wonderful people who we have had the chance to meet through the various spanking sites!!

Hope to see you there!!

Miss Welts

Keeping and Respecting Lives Outside of the Kink!

I have been thinking about what I wanted to make my post about this week and after some interesting questions I have gotten this week I wanted to discuss boundaries. Jon and I put a section of our life out for the world to see. Always remember the things you know about someone is only what they want you to know. Do not expect to know the whole situation. We post pictures and information about specific punishments, but that is only a fraction of the punishments that go on around here. We also do not give all the details on what was done to earn the punishment.

Punishments are just that, they are not for pleasure. While we do enjoy photo sharing we do not like sharing intimate details of every aspect of our life.

What I mean by all of this is our “vanilla” life. Jon has already said he has a job in the Military. I say I work from home. What I do as my job I can not really say too much. I work in a field where I have a lot of customers and if the two lives combined it would make for a complex situation.

One part that I will go into is that I am opening a fetish line of products soon. We are looking for testers of some of the products, but more on that another day. The rest of what I do is personal to me.

This is not just a problem I have faced. I see people all the time being outed to others who say what their name really is, where they live, what they do for a job. While I know this information about a lot of my spanko friends and they know mine you must keep it private.

While I don’t always agree some do this outside of the bounds of their relationships and marriages. As adults we have the right to make decisions and lead the life we want. But this is a private sensative subject and should be treated as such.

Here are a few rules I like to follow and ask the people whom I spank to follow. This pertains to both the spanker and spankee

1. Don’t give out anyone’s real name without their approval. That could be as simple as their first name. Never give it out, only call them by their nickname or screen name.

2. Don’t tell anyone where the other person lives. There are many freaks out there and you don’t want anything happening to the other person. Some will say their state or general location, never give out addresses, specific cities or other details.

3. Don’t tell anyone what job the individuals hold. While we would like to think that adults can do as they please, well thats not the case. Some are in jobs that could be destroyed if the information is leaked. I have seen instances where a spankee gets mad that a spanker can’t meet with her and sent pictures and letters to the Spanker’s office.

4. Why you get punished is your story to tell. The Spanker should never say why the spankee was being punished. Punishments are personal and some hold deep emotional baggage with them. No one wants to have their secrets displayed for everyone to see. If the spankee agrees then that information can be shared.

5. If you do not have contact with the spankee and want to write a story or post about a specific spanking, change the names. Never give out their username, former names, etc.

6. Don’t give out information until you know someone. It is very easy to trace emails, phone numbers and more. Do NOT ever share any personal information until you are fully comfortable with the individuals involved.

7. Try and keep as many family details private as possible. Admit to what you need to but never share too much. Your spouse, kids, siblings and parents would appreciate the crazies not being able to contact them.

Just always keep in mind that we are humans too, we have lives outside the kink (well most of us do.) and we do not want to combine those.  And always play safe everytime and every way!!!

Hugs!!

Miss Welts

Check Out Our Other Lives!!!

There has been some interest in another form of our lifestyle lately and I am excited to finally get to show you!!

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Check out our other blog as we go into our lifestyle more including Age Play, Diaper Play, etc!!!!

Since this is a sensitive subject to some we decided to give it a different blog to keep it and the regular spankings apart!

If your interested check it out! Lots of fun things coming soon!

On an update note, check back starting Wednesday as we will be doing our soap project! I know everyone is excited to see what we have learned. There is another secret! We will be doing product reviews starting at the end of January, you will get to see products we use, what we think, and the effects they cause both Jon and I!!

Hope everyone has a wonderful week!!!!

Miss Welts

Everyone Starts Somewhere!

Hey Spankos!!!! Miss Welts here!!

Having a crappy night full of pain and inability to sleep. I was reading Jon’s post about starting out and it inspired me to add some of my own information.

I get asked all the time, “How did you get started?” I don’t know if I ever got started per say, I never really had to. Unlike Jon I was spanked from the age of at least 2 until I was a pre-teen. There isnt many people in my life that did not get the chance to spank me growing up. Babysitters, parents, grandparents, teachers, principals, and troop leaders….im sure I have left others out. Spanked for missing a shot in the big basketball game? Yes I had that type of coach. It was just how it was in my childhood. I can’t and quite frankly do not try and explain it.

Given that I was always disciplined for even the smallest transgression I could not go long without it. It seems after spanking wore off and my parents then found themselves without a plan and just turned off and decided to never punish me again. No grounding or the sort. Actually, I take that back they did ground me one day….my sister ran away and I was the one grounded….yeah.

****My PSA, if you are under the age of 18 Please for one exit this site, and two never follow what I did.****

When I was 15 I was tired of getting away with everything and started to search out on my own. I guess its where you can say I finally realized I was a spanko. Though let me tell you its hard not to realize it when your bent over your hot male babysitter’s lap and he is busting your butt because you did something on purpose just to get spanked. We aren’t here to discuss that now!! I did some research and learned that my best friend was a spanko.  I wound up dating several guys who either were spankos or I at least got them to go along for the ride.

Eventually I started venturing out and spanking others and met a lot of people that way.

Here are a few things I have learned along the way, hope they help!

1. Everyone was new at some point. Ask questions, don’t be afraid of the “pros” or those that seem to have all the experience. We all received and given our first spankings before. It takes years to build the strength to handle a tough session. It also is equally as hard to give a proper spanking.

2. Don’t be afraid to suck!!! Okay so that first spanking you cried with the first hand spank? Thats fine!! You couldn’t swing the paddle hard enough? Okay! There is always next time. Don’t let your fears of not being good and not being able to handle it stop you from experiencing this side of your life.

3. Say No!! You can say no, it does not matter if your the spanker or spankee. If you do not like how the spanking is going say so. Many times as a spanker I have refused to continue on because I did not believe where it was going was beneficial to the spankee.

4. Speak UP!!!! Do not leave a comment unsaid. It might take the fun out of that first spanking but if you want it to happen tell the spanker BEFORE your session. Your likely to forget in the excitement of the moment and you do not want to miss out on valuable chances. Also knowing exactly what will happen can put the spanker and spankee both at ease going into the session.

5. Make some noise!!! I hate hearing people talk about how they are so afraid to spank because of noise in hotels and so forth. Don’t be!! Your a consenting adult and have every right to do what you please in the room you pay for!! Now im not saying make people think your being murdered! Worst thing that will happen is a cop will show up and you both have to admit your doing a consensual spanking and all is well!! I have personal experience with this and its kinda embarrassing but funny!

6. Don’t take it all off!! Are you not comfortable with nudity or would feel comfortable with your panties on? There is nothing wrong with that!! I will say its easier to judge how the spanking is going based on actually seeing skin but its a personal preference. Make your feelings known ahead of time! But are you like me and a body is a body? By all means take it off and get going!!!

7. Give Feedback!! Some spankers do not like talking during the spanking and that is fine. But if it does not hurt enough say something, if you don’t like a position, be heard. At the end of the spanking or sometime later tell the spanker what you thought. What worked, what didn’t. It will only benefit you in the long run to be able to only use what works for you.

8. Breathe!! This is something Jon forgets quite frequently. Breathe!! I know its stressful, it hurts, it gets hot. But you have to breathe. If you tense up and forget to breathe it hurts far greater than it should. Take a moment and breathe. If it is going too fast ask for it to slow down. Stay as calm as possible to take in every moment of the experience!!

9. Don’t worry about others!!! Afraid someone will know? Afraid someone will out you? Don’t be. Most of my highschool knew what I was doing and guess what? It didn’t change a thing in my life. If someone finds you on these online boards then they would have to explain why they themselves were on the site!! What you do as consenting adults is perfectly fine and legal. Don’t let anyone make you afraid to be yourself!!

10. HAVE FUN!!!! You only get each spanking once. Enjoy it, or loathe it, or fear it. But just be in the moment and take it for what it is. Punishment or fun, learn from it and take the time to actually soak it in!

Anywho, Thats enough rambling tonight!!! Sleep Well Spankos!!

 

Spanked Butt of the Week: 01/12/14

Hey guys, hope you’re all enjoying your Sunday. I know I certainly am after enjoying three weeks off with Miss Welts, it was back to work for me last week, and boy was it exhausting! Hopefully this picture of this lovely spanked bottom from girls-boarding-school will help you enjoy your Sunday just a little more! Happy Spanking!

Christine Gets The Belt (Courtesy: Girls-Boarding School)

Christine Gets The Belt (Courtesy: Girls-Boarding School)

Celebrities: Who’d You Rather—Miss Welts Edition!!

Hello Everyone!!!

Jon posted a blog last week talking about celebrities he would want to spank and be spanked by. Thought it would be fun to give a female’s perspective!!

Now for who I want to spank me the list is so long. Have you seen some of the men, and even women,  in these movies? I mean I could go all day. As I mature my tastes do as well and I have some rather interesting reasoning for these choices!!

Lets start with who I wouldn’t mind to put me over their lap…and a few other places.

Tom Hardy

As if this one even needs a reply. I am just in love with Tom Hardy as an actor but even more as a man. It’s amazing to see how grounded he is and how much he does to help others.

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Just look at those eyes!!! I am an emotional person when it comes to spanking, you don’t get through to me with pain you get through to me with raw emotion. Pain does not hurt me. I can only imagine how hard it would be to look into those eyes before being punished…yeah it would not take long to get me feeling really sorry.

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He did mention in an article recently how he is always afraid to lose his job in acting! Don’t worry sweetie I have a job for you right here forever and ever…..Okay I know behave……would I be writing a spanking blog if I knew how to behave?

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Now don’t get me wrong I do love my pain..But seeing his as Bane????? Yes I will take my spanking after he tones down that body some!! I fall asleep to this movie most nights and have watched it so many times I can recite it to myself to fall asleep. And Yes I get to dream about Tom Hardy…even if he is trying to kill me…he is damn sexy while doing it.

 

Now my next gentleman would have to be People Magazine’s Sexiest Man Alive for 2012

Channing Tatum

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Similar to Tom Hardy, I love Channing Tatum for his work outside of the cameras. There is something about seeing a man holding his newborn baby in an Ergo carrier in the airport that just makes me swoon.

I don’t think I would have a problem getting him to go along with it. I mean have you seen Magic Mike??

download (2)He strikes me as a freak in the bedroom..and he does have all the moves anyone could ever want!!!

Now this last one might seem a little weird but its Mr. Brady!!

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One thing I always need is accountability and there are times when I prefer to be a child then an adult…I hate being responsible. There is something about his character that I always wanted to be spanked by him even as young as I was watching this. He stayed so calm and reassuring at all times no matter what his kids did. Come on he has six kids…surely he could handle me…for a day or two.

Now enough with my crazy kinks lets move on to those I want to spank.

Like Jon hit on with Miley Cyrus, I would agree with him, except she is experimental and he would be giving her exactly what she wanted. And we must not have that kind of satisfaction.

He touched on something but wouldn’t venture into it so I shall…..allow me to pull out my soap box for a minute.

Needs a spanking, enough said.

Now I know what you think, easy choice. Yes this guy is a punk who drives recklessly, does drugs, is lazy and a horrible influence. I even brought our niece a singing doll and now I cuss myself for that. What happened to the boy bands we had back in the 90s??? I still keep the love alive in my car every time im driving (no judgements)

My issue with this kid (yes he is a kid), is his abuse of animals. There is nothing I despise more than bringing harm to animals, children, or elderly. Lets start with him just taking his hamster, whom was in too small of a cage to begin with, and giving it to a random kid outside of a concert. Then he took a monkey to Germany without paperwork leading that poor infant monkey to be stuck in quarantine for weeks and completely abandoned him. There is word he gave it to a zoo….we won’t go there. As someone who has exotics and a lot of animals I would love to just take a belt to his ass.

I could go on all day about all the celebrities I would love to teach a lesson to but you get my point!!!

Thanks for catching up with me! Look for a more in-depth view of me (Miss Welts) in the coming days.

GoodBye for Now!!!!!

 

 

 

 

 

Starting Out

Hey friends, just wanted to share with you all a couple of really great sites to use if you’re either a new to this spanking lifestyle and have questions, or even if you’ve been doing this for 20 years and just want to meet some new people.

I’m always getting asked, “where can I meet people that are into spanking like I am?”. The simple answer I normally give someone is to just start looking! You’d be surprised how many resources are out there to meet new people specifically in the spanking scene and lifestyle. All that has to be done on your part is to take the time and look. The perfect spanking partner for you isn’t going to just plop into your lap. For me especially, it took almost a year and a half before I met Mrs. Welts, and we met in a spanko.net chat room.

Now that site is great if you just want to talk to somebody, anybody (and I do mean anybody…), about spanking, but what if you’re new and don’t really know where to start? I found this great website Spanking Needs (www.spankingneeds.com), that caters almost exclusively to people that are new to the spanking lifestyle. They have a nice little website with articles, but the main focus is their forums and chat room, all completely free, just make a profile. I’ve been to a lot of spanking chat rooms but this is probably the only one where you’ll find a smaller group of spankos that make you feel welcome. Mrs. and I are on there fairly regularly, so feel free to stop by and say hi if you see us on there. Our screen names are JonWelts86 and New2this.

There’s also a new social networking site that’s small right now, but has a lot of potential. It’s called Spanking Haven (www.spankinghaven.com) and it was made by one of my friends on spanking needs, Special K. It would be great if you guys checked it out. It’s similar to ipunishment.com and fetlife.com (also great resources for meeting spankos), however it’s small enough right now that it wouldn’t overwhelm someone getting started in this lifestyle.

Hope you guys enjoyed your New Year’s celebrations and your holiday season! To leave you today, I’ll share with you what I was doing at the stroke of midnight. Mrs. decided it would be a perfect time to give me a short but very sharp punishment spanking to make up for several things I got in trouble for over the past week. My bare butt was over her knee, and at the stroke of midnight, the first crack of the bath brush came down, and didn’t let up until I was truly sorry with the tears starting to flow. So what do you think? Think she did a good job? I think this was a good way to start out the new year!

Starting 2014 off right!

Starting 2014 off right!

Celebrities: Who’d You Rather?

A few days ago I gave you guys a hint I was going to do a celebrity based post, and after giving it some thought…here it is!

Have you ever saw a celebrity in a movie, tv show, or concert and said to yourself, “wow, I wonder what it would be like to spank or get spanked by them”? Don’t lie now, I know we’ve all done it at some point in our spanko journeys! So which one is your favorite? Who is that one sizzling actor or actress that would make you melt once they put you over their knee? And who is that spoiled, dirty, over-the-top ridiculous celeb that just makes your spanking hand twitch? I’ll share with you my favorites on both the giving and receiving side, then leave me a comment and share with me which one is your pick!

First up, the celebrities I would want to get spanked by. To me, that was a no-brainer. There are two very beautiful actresses that I think would definitely get the job done, and look great doing it!

Angelina Jolie:

Angelina Jolie (swoon!)

Angelina Jolie (swoon!)

I think this one may be obvious for some, I mean come on! Angelina Jolie definitely has “The Look”. She’s extremely beautiful, powerful, seductive, and just…wow! You heard rumors about her crazy, open-minded, sex-life, especially when she was younger, and you just have a feeling that she would be open enough to trying some spanko action…if she hasn’t already!

Angelina Jolie (Holy...!)

Angelina Jolie (Holy…!)

I mean come on! Look at how she just stares into your soul with those piercing eyes!

I did get close to seeing my spanko-crush fantasy come true in the movie Mr. and Mrs. Smith. I’m sure you all remember the scene where she plays an assassin disguised as a Dominatrix! I thought it was a really hot scene, despite the whole snapping of the guy’s neck at the end thing, but hey, he was a bad guy anyways right? Taking out the trash and looking hot doing it! :)

Angelina Jolie almost completes my fantasy in the movie "Mr. and Mrs. Smith" (2005)

Angelina Jolie almost completes my fantasy in the movie “Mr. and Mrs. Smith” (2005)

Monica Bellucci:

Monica Bellucci (So classy!)

Monica Bellucci (So classy!)

Now here’s a woman that I first saw on The Matrix Trilogy that really blew me away, Monica Bellucci! Her beauty, style, class and grace are just so very appealing. She’s a very famous French actress and I’ve seen a few of her movies, but she’s only been in a handful of American hit movies. Most notable are The Matrix Reloaded and Revolutions, and Shoot Em Up. Like most of these celebrities, it’s highly doubtful they are into anything associated with the spanking lifestyle, but if they were…you could tell that some would be a lot better at it than others! I think Miss Bellucci could definitely pull off the strict Aunt or strict Boss role with no problem! Oh, and lets not forget she would probably make a really hot Dominatrix like Angelina Jolie, which we sort of get a glimpse of in The Matrix Revolutions, AND in Shoot Em Up, where she played a Dominatrix who was in the middle of an infantilism scene when introduced!

Monica Bellucci dressed for action in red leather! (The Matrix Revolutions)

Monica Bellucci dressed for action in red leather! (The Matrix Revolutions)

So now we come to the part of which celebrities I would rather spank. Ironically enough, both come from the music industry. I’m sure a lot of people would agree with me that some of these music “icons” today are just begging to be taken down a notch so they can quit putting out all this outlandish garbage, and put on some damn clothes!

Miley Cyrus:

Miley Cyrus (For God's sake, put that damn tongue back in your mouth!)

Miley Cyrus (For God’s sake, put that damn tongue back in your mouth!)

Ah yes, I bet there was no surprise that this one would make the list. What in the world is wrong with this girl? She was just so cute and innocent on Hannah Montana and just so pretty, but then what the hell happened? Sticking out her tongue like a damn dog, “twerking” aka pretending to have rhythm, and acting like, as my wife puts it, like she ain’t got the sense God gave a Billy Goat! Her on-stage behavior lately is just really inexcusable. Dry humping on the VMAs, smoking weed on stage…seriously? I don’t know about ya’ll but I think that’s definitely one, or two, or ten spankable offences!

Miley Cyrus at the VMAs (seriously?)

Miley Cyrus at the VMAs (seriously?)

Are you kidding me???

Are you kidding me???

I mean, I guess wanting to spank her is not all that bad. She does have a pretty attractive target area…

Ok, I guess I would gladly spank that!

Ok, I guess I would gladly spank that!

Anyways, I could go on all day about why I would want to spank her, and for all the reasons why she would need a spanking. I guess the same would go for this guy, but don’t get me started on him…

Needs a spanking, enough said.

Needs a spanking, enough said.

Stay tuned for part two friends, when Mrs. Welts stops by and tells us her picks for the top spanking and spanked celebrities. Hope you guy’s enjoy your New Year’s Day! Happy Spanking!