Miss Welts here again!
I have been asked to talk more about myself and my history so I thought it would be best to share some of the situations that have shaped me into who I am today.
The names are changed to protect privacy but all other details are the same!
I have many experiences in spanking on both sides of the implements but one experience changed the way I view discipline and the kink for the rest of my life. I learned the power of discipline, cleansing and forgiveness.
When I was younger my life was changed forever by a gentleman who decided to make the unfortunate decision to get behind the wheel of a large truck after consuming too much alcohol. I was injured and to this day I am reminded of his decision everytime i try and move parts of my body.
Now I know what does this have to do with spanking? I grew up in a small southern town where discipline in households was prominent. Most people take responsibility for their actions.
A few years after my wreck I was pretty active in the local spanking community and I had a friend I shall call “Mindy.” To put in perspective how small of a town I lived in, Mindy is friends with a gentleman, who is one of the brothers to the guy that injured me that fateful night. I didnt know that soon our lives would come together once more. Now I knew this gentleman, but we were all under orders from lawyers to not have any contact with each other. We did not know that Mindy knew both of us. It wasn’t until Mindy put details of a conversation she had with ‘Tom” together with details she knew about me, that she figured out the connection.
Tom is a good man with a wonderful family, great wife, beautiful kids. He seems to have it all. What brought him to Mindy that fateful day is a dark secret he was dealing with. He was dealing with and unbelievable amount of guilt because a couple years prior he handed his brother a set of keys as his brother was leaving his house, knowing that he was too drunk to even walk. He lived with the guilt knowing he did nothing to stop the set of events that transpired after his brother pulled out that afternoon. He had struggled with these details for years and it was getting harder to handle. He trusted Mindy and went to talk to her one day. Now Tom is a vanilla, very straight forward individual. He had no clue about Mindy’s extra activities. All he wanted was a friend to talk to.
He just wanted to open up to his trusted friend about his guilt. Now I was not there and do not know the exact conversation but it came down to Tom asking Mindy how she deals with stress and guilt. Mindy broke down and told Tom about her spanking lifestyle. About how she has a Domme (me), and when she misbehaves, she is spanked and punished and basically all the details. Now Tom is far from a spanko but he did grow up in a very strict house and there was always punishments for actions. He asked her if it would help him and she thought it would. Somehow details were put together and it was realized that I was the victim in the accident in which he felt so guilty about. He asked Mindy something that I can only imagine how difficult it was for her…….He wanted me to spank him. He also shared another secret that she promised not to tell me. But it was this secret that gave her the motivation to make the call.
I recall that conversation like it was yesterday. A couple days later she got up the nerve and called me. She told me that she had a friend that needed a spanking…..ok that was a common call. I was fine with that, and started asking for details. Well I was not prepared when she told me who I would be spanking! Now I have a lot of anger over what happened that night that I processed through the years. But to me I never blamed the brother. I also thought this was crazy, I felt like I was going to have to be the biggest vindictive person ever if I was to do that. Yes we still had a lawsuit pending as well. I told Mindy No I was not doing it. She started crying and saying it was a big deal and if I did not do it then it would have bad ramifications for Tom. I kept asking what she meant but she would not tell me. I hung up on her, I was in shock.
She spent days emailing, calling, and texting me. I just could not wrap my head around the idea. I have spanked a lot of people for various reasons but this was just something I never could imagine.
Could I bring myself to do this? Why was she being so determined? What am I missing?
The answers would change my view on people and life itself.