The Needs of Others

Part 2

Mindy remained persistent for several days. I discussed the option with another friend but I could not bring myself to agree to spanking Tom. I know Mindy well and she would not test me like this. She would not harp on a subject and be this upset if there wasn’t something more motivating her. Why was it me? If he wanted a spanking why not Mindy, or one of other friends we both knew that would do it? Why was it me or nothing at all? 

Spanking someone is far from foreign to me. I have had the task of spanking individuals for issues and transgressions ranging from drugs, sexual acts, and simple things like lying and procrastination. Nothing anyone asks of me surprises me any more. I am far from an innocent person and I have had to ask for some pretty tough and personal spankings through the years. 

I was struggling with everything from the fact he was not in the lifestyle so would he even understand? How would it work? In the end I kept asking myself…what about me? Anyone who knows  me knows that this is a rare question. I never worry about myself, to a fault, and usually can put my personal opinions and feelings out of a situation. I had came to move on from the accident and all the aftermath but there was still a lot of bitter feelings there. I never blamed any of the family members who were with that guy that night and could I really bring myself to hurt one?

I went back and forth over this decision for several days and lost many nights of sleep. Finally I decided to sit down and talk to  Mindy and at least discuss the idea. Find out what this was even about. Maybe some logic would help me and we could come to some sort of a middle ground. 

We met for coffee, well I had hot chocolate cause I am like the energizer bunny on ecstasy if i drink coffee, and we talked. She told me things I already knew about this guy and his family, small town people talk. Then I turn around and see that he is in the coffee shop too. It took all I had not to throw a fit at this point. How could she betray me and corner me like this? How did she have the nerve to cross me? I left quietly and the entire way home was wondering what I got myself involved in. This was a mess bigger then I could handle.

Mindy then texted me, i ignored it and continued to ignore her for a few days. It was not until I was meeting with another friend that I really opened  my eyes. Mindy is not one to do anything  brash. She had to of been desperate. If she was desperate, how desperate would Tom have to be to show up at the coffee shop and see us? What am I missing? 

I call Mindy, I proceed to ask her all these questions and she would not answer what the bottom line was. She kept saying she could not tell me but if I knew I would immediately punish him and have no mercy. After about 6 hours of  going back and forth the decision was made.

I did not know the full story but I decided to trust in my friend and trust in myself. I have never discriminated against anyone who wanted discipline no matter how hard or bad the things are that they did. Mindy reminded me of some of the occasions where I took on much worse than this and why would I turn my back now. Was I still so angry that I didn’t care? I thought the point was I was not going to do it because I would have been vindictive, but is the vindictive part not helping at all?

I agree I would spank him. I didn’t know how but I will bring myself to do it. We schedule a hotel for a week later. It took me 4 hours to drive to the hotel which was approximately 10 mins from my house and I sat in the car  for another hour. I finally built up the courage to go in. 

I am going into this blind……..but I’m trusting what I know. I  already knew the power of discipline and cleansing, or at least I thought I did. 

Changing Perspectives

Miss Welts here again!

I have been asked to talk more about myself and my history so I thought it would be best to share some of the situations that have shaped me into who I am today.

The names are changed to protect privacy but all other details are the same!

I have many experiences in spanking on both sides of the implements but one experience changed the way I view discipline and the kink for the rest of my life. I learned the power of discipline, cleansing and forgiveness.

When I was younger my life was changed forever by a gentleman who decided to make the unfortunate decision to get behind the wheel of a large truck after consuming too much alcohol. I was injured and to this day I am reminded of his decision everytime i try and move parts of my body.

Now I know what does this have to do with spanking? I grew up in a small southern town where discipline in households was prominent. Most people take responsibility for their actions.

A few years after my wreck I was pretty active in the local spanking community and I had a friend I shall call “Mindy.” To put in perspective how small of a town I lived in, Mindy is friends with a gentleman, who is one of the brothers to the guy that injured me that fateful night. I didnt know that soon our lives would come together once more. Now I knew this gentleman, but we were all under orders from lawyers to not have any contact with each other. We did not know that Mindy knew both of us. It wasn’t until Mindy put details of a conversation she had with ‘Tom” together with details she knew about me, that she figured out the connection.

Tom is a good man with a wonderful family, great wife, beautiful kids. He seems to have it all. What brought him to Mindy that fateful day is a dark secret he was dealing with. He was dealing with and unbelievable amount of guilt because a couple years prior he handed his brother a set of keys as his brother was leaving his house, knowing that he was too drunk to even walk. He lived with the guilt knowing he did nothing to stop the set of events that transpired after his brother pulled out that afternoon. He had struggled with these details for years and it was getting harder to handle. He trusted Mindy and went to talk to her one day. Now Tom is a vanilla, very straight forward individual. He had no clue about Mindy’s extra activities. All he wanted was a friend to talk to.

He just wanted to open up to his trusted friend about his guilt. Now I was not there and do not know the exact conversation but it came down to Tom asking Mindy how she deals with stress and guilt. Mindy broke down and told Tom about her spanking lifestyle. About how she has a Domme (me), and when she misbehaves, she is spanked and punished and basically all the details. Now Tom is far from a spanko but he did grow up in a very strict house and there was always punishments for actions. He asked her if it would help him and she thought it would. Somehow details were put together and it was realized that I was the victim in the accident in which he felt so guilty about. He asked Mindy something that I can only imagine how difficult it was for her…….He wanted me to spank him. He also shared another secret that she promised not to tell me. But it was this secret that gave her the motivation to make the call.

I recall that conversation like it was yesterday. A couple days later she got up the nerve and called me. She told me that she had a friend that needed a spanking…..ok that was a common call. I was fine with that, and started asking for details. Well I was not prepared when she told me who I would be spanking! Now I have a lot of  anger over what happened that night that I processed through the years. But to me I never blamed the brother. I also thought this was crazy, I felt like I was going to have to be the biggest vindictive person ever if I was to do that. Yes we still had a lawsuit pending as well. I told Mindy No I was not doing it. She started crying and saying it was a big deal and if I did not do it then it would have bad ramifications for Tom. I kept asking what she meant but she would not tell me. I hung up on her, I was in shock.

She spent days emailing, calling, and texting me. I just could not wrap my head around the idea. I have spanked a lot of people for various reasons but this was just something I never could imagine.

Could I bring myself to do this? Why was she being so determined? What am I missing?

The answers would change my view on people and life itself.