While I sit here in Afghanistan freezing my butt off, I took a look at this picture and became all warm inside thinking about this great tropical beach with an awesome view (in more ways than one)! Enjoy.
So I pose a question for you guys, what are your thoughts on how to keep the discipline and the fun going in your life when you are separated from your Top or your bottom?
As you all know, I’ve been 10,000 miles away from home for the last 9 to 10 months and still have about a month and a half to go. I would be lying if I didn’t say this subject hasn’t been swirling around in my mind for some time now. So what works? What doesn’t work?
I found that for some behavioral issues, they simply just can’t be ignored. However, these issues would usually be taken care of with a good spanking or some other form of punishment delivered face to face. What if this option isn’t available anymore? Do you try to find some new way to attempt the discipline or do you just wait til you are face to face with your Top or bottom, and risk making the discipline seem more like a formality rather than seeking the actual discipline required?
Being over here, so far away from the real world, I really do miss being held accountable for my actions, and I truly miss the feeling of being looked after. Sure, I have friends and family who are very supportive, but you know there is that different kind of support too that I’ve been lacking. I wish I could open up to someone when I make a mistake and have them hold me to a certain standard, making sure I follow that standard and showing me those consequences for not holding up those standards. I think that is what real love and Domestic Discipline is about. I just wish I could have that feeling when away from home.
So does anybody have any thoughts on this subject? I would say self-spanking might work, but in reality, we all know it doesn’t. Maybe extended cornertime? Maybe writing lines or essays? Mouth soapings perhaps? I would be really interested on what others have to think, because after 10 months, I’m still really stumped!
In other news, things are going well over here. The night was quiet and slow work wise, but I got a lot done. I wrote out some future blog posts, but a dent in my Tom Clancy book (my favorite author) and was able to actually go the full 12 hours without feeling drowsy! It was almost miraculous! :)
Hope everyone is doing well, and stay tuned for more awesome content!