While I sit here in Afghanistan freezing my butt off, I took a look at this picture and became all warm inside thinking about this great tropical beach with an awesome view (in more ways than one)! Enjoy.
So I pose a question for you guys, what are your thoughts on how to keep the discipline and the fun going in your life when you are separated from your Top or your bottom?
As you all know, I’ve been 10,000 miles away from home for the last 9 to 10 months and still have about a month and a half to go. I would be lying if I didn’t say this subject hasn’t been swirling around in my mind for some time now. So what works? What doesn’t work?
I found that for some behavioral issues, they simply just can’t be ignored. However, these issues would usually be taken care of with a good spanking or some other form of punishment delivered face to face. What if this option isn’t available anymore? Do you try to find some new way to attempt the discipline or do you just wait til you are face to face with your Top or bottom, and risk making the discipline seem more like a formality rather than seeking the actual discipline required?
Being over here, so far away from the real world, I really do miss being held accountable for my actions, and I truly miss the feeling of being looked after. Sure, I have friends and family who are very supportive, but you know there is that different kind of support too that I’ve been lacking. I wish I could open up to someone when I make a mistake and have them hold me to a certain standard, making sure I follow that standard and showing me those consequences for not holding up those standards. I think that is what real love and Domestic Discipline is about. I just wish I could have that feeling when away from home.
So does anybody have any thoughts on this subject? I would say self-spanking might work, but in reality, we all know it doesn’t. Maybe extended cornertime? Maybe writing lines or essays? Mouth soapings perhaps? I would be really interested on what others have to think, because after 10 months, I’m still really stumped!
In other news, things are going well over here. The night was quiet and slow work wise, but I got a lot done. I wrote out some future blog posts, but a dent in my Tom Clancy book (my favorite author) and was able to actually go the full 12 hours without feeling drowsy! It was almost miraculous! :)
Hope everyone is doing well, and stay tuned for more awesome content!
What’s up my spanko peeps? Hope everyone enjoyed their weekend. I on the other hand, have totally lost the concept of what a weekend is since I haven’t had one, or a day off for that matter, in about 11 months! All is well though and in just a short month or two I’ll be back home having more free time than I know what to do with.
Things are going alright over here and they have finally calmed down after all the recent riots and things over here in Afghanistan. It was pretty hairy for a long while, and in some places it still is. Anyways, who wants to hear about all that bad news? I’m pretty sure that wasn’t the reason you came here, was it? Let’s get to it then.
This time I wanted to share with you my favorite spanking positions. There sure are a lot out there. Some traditional, some creative, and some are just plain wild. I’m always intrigued by seeing what people can come up with when it comes to positioning a round bottom for a good spanking. Here are my top 3 favorites that I thought I would share with you. I will be adding more over time so stay tuned. For now, enjoy!
Over the knee (OTK).
I know, what a shock, I started with a classic. Although there are lots of other positions out there, I doubt there is anything more personal than pulling your partner (or getting pulled!) over the knee for a spanking to get that personal message across. While not necassarily all that comfy for the person getting spanked, a spanking isn’t supposed to be comfy for the naughty boy or girl getting spanked is it? I do like that feeling of pulling your naughty boy or girl closer to you by the waist and holding firmly as they get the spanking they deserve. It will probably always be a timeless classic.
Another classic of course. In some, this probably conjures up memories of when they may have been in school when the paddle was used by the principal. Not as personal as being spanked over someone’s knee, however, this position is called for when you really need a good swing to get the job done right and make that bottom sore! Of course you could be bent over many things such as a table, chair, spanking bench or horse, but it’s interesting to see what other things people come up with.
Diaper Positon. (OUCH!)
Nothing drives home the combination of pain and embarrassment than from a spanking in the diaper position (or legs up, as some people call it). In my experience, it’s probably one of the more painful positions due to the flesh being stretched tightly across the bottom producing a lot more “ouch” with each and every stroke. Also, I can’t think of anything more embarrassing than getting spanked with EVERYTHING showing! There is definitely nothing left to hide after having your legs pulled up and seeing every inch of you become exposed. I think this is recommended for the naughtiest of naughty girls and boys out there, what do you think?
That’s all for now, hope you enjoyed my input on my top 3 favorite positions. Now how about you tell me yours? Send me a comment and let’s see if you can give me a new favorite to try out once I get home! Happy Spankings!
Hi again spanko friends, just thought I’d check in before heading off to bed for some much-needed sleep. As you can imagine, things are still really hectic and busy over here in the land of the Afghans, and hopefully things will settle down enough to create a decent blog post for you guys and gals.
So yesterday was my “off” day meaning that I only work 6 hours a day instead of the usual 12-14 to rest and have time to catch up on sleep or other personal things going on. Well that was nice in theory, but there was to be none of that for me. I work the night shift here in Afghanistan meaning that its basically the same as working the day shift back in the states, so I like being on everybody’s normal schedule. I will email or message people and tell them “good morning” and usually get a response like “thanks, but isn’t it the night-time over there?” Yup sure is, however, its morning to you and since I just woke up from sleeping during the daytime here, it’s morning for me as well…so ha! :)
Back to my fantabulous day, I got off work at 2am and then had to be back at work at 5am to pull “road guard” at an intersection on the main road on base. I had to stand there with a reflective belt on and holding a cone-shaped flashlight which actually reminded me of a mini-star wars lightsaber (yes, I know I’m a nerd, but aren’t we all?!)
Standing there for 2 hours wasn’t all that big of a deal, but what WAS a big deal was the fact that it was 12 degrees outside! See, I’m from California, northern California to be precise, and honestly there’s no such thing as 12 degrees where I’m from. It’s “cold” when it gets below 50 in Sacramento, so of course I “thought” I dressed warm enough for the occassion…but I “thought” wrong. I was wearing a t-shirt, thermal sweater, uniform jacket, uniform pants and boots, a fleece jacket, a beanie, a Shemagh (a type of Afghan scarf), and thick winter gloves. So how could that not be enough? By the end of the first hour I couldn’t feel my fingertips and toes, by an hour and a half I couldn’t feel my face and was speaking with a lisp (quite funny actually), and by the end of the second hour my toes and my joints felt like they were frozen solid and numb. I could barely walk around without feeling totally weird.
I went to grab some breakfast after it was over and it felt good to sit down and warm up with some warm food but I was still pretty chilled. Even going back to my room it took me another 2 hours to warm up under my blanket. Then of course I had to go back out because I forgot I had to go get a haircut, get a new ID card (because mine expired last month) and go to the shop to grab an energy drink or something for the next shift. I got all that accomplished in less than 90 mins and thought I made some pretty good time. I finally got my camera working over here so I decided to finally do what I’ve been wanting to do since I got here and take some pictures of the beautiful mountains that we are surrounded by. I’ll post them below and I hope you enjoy them as much as I enjoyed taking them.
There was my crazy “off” day for you and while I was able to take care of some things, I totally didn’t get a chance to do what I’ve been waiting for a week now to do, and that’s to sleep! With all the riots and stuff going on this week it definitely wore me down and out and I was really looking forward to catching up. Nope, not this guy, oh well, better luck next week eh?
Ok, now that I got a chance to vent that out the way, let’s talk some spanking shall we? In upcoming posts I’m going to be sharing my favorite types of implements and positions with you and see what your favorites are as well. Also, what are some of the techniques you’ve used before for discipline, or to be disciplined? Things such as cornertime, mouthsoaping, writing lines are always classical favorites, but I wonder if anyone out there has some truly unique ideas?
I’ll be sharing with you my views on those subjects and more on upcoming posts but for now I think it’s time to finally wind down for bed so I can get up and do this craziness all over again. Since it’s Saturday afternoon here that means it’s early Saturday morning back in the states. I hope everyone enjoys the hell out of their weekend and go party it up for me will ya? I’ll be joining you soon enough!
Cya all soon, enjoy these random pics I snapped while running errands around base yesterday. Later friends!
Hi again friends, can’t sleep tonight with all the rioting going on outside so I thought I would try something new and come up with a poll for you guys.
Now, I know this question is asked on a lot of blogs and a lot of sites but I wanted to see what you guys think when it comes to this site. Depending on the results, I might cater one preference over another when I post content. Plus, I’m just bored and curious! :)
Maybe I’ll come up with some more polls soon, already have a few ideas floating around in my head (which right now won’t quiet down so I can sleep!). Hope everyone has a great morning and I’ll be seeing you all soon, don’t forget to vote!
Hey friends, hope everyone is doing well and having a good week. I wish I could say the same, this has been a pretty difficult and trying week for me and unfortunately I think it will only get worse for a while before it starts to get any better.
For those that don’t know, I’m a soldier deployed in Afghanistan, and to say the least, things are not going well right now. The whole Qur’an burning incident took place about a mile from where I write this to you. All the angry protests you’re seeing at that base on the news? It’s literally right down the street from me, less than a quarter mile away.
I’m doing alright, but things have been pretty stressful and strenuous as of late. All the local workers have either not shown up for work or quit altogether so a lot of the services here on base have been shut down, this includes the bathroom facilities and showers since the local workers aren’t here to add more. Also, all the local bazzars and shops are closed down, the dining facilities are barely operational, this place seems like it has done a complete 180 almost overnight.
Today will be my time off for the week (I’ll be working 6 hours instead of the usual 12-14) so it will be a good time to work on some more writing, update my blog for you guys and catch up on some much needed sleep. Right now though, it’s time to get ready for work and hopefully find out that nothing even crazier happened today while I was sleeping. Hope everyone enjoys their day.
To give you an idea of how close the riots are to me, I’m including a picture I snapped outside of my room of a blackhawk helicopter circling the group of protesters. Hopefully I can send some more pictures of me out here soon although have to be careful with security concerns and all. Anyways, hope everybody has a great day and I’ll be back soon.
It’s not often that you meet someone and instantly become very close to that person in a way it makes you feel like that you’ve known them for your whole life. However, this is exactly what it feels like to me when I had the pleasure of talking to Dana Specht and her naughty, but awesome, daughter Sarah Gregory.
Right before I started this blog, I decided to email some of the big names in spanking to just introduce myself and wonder if they would be interested in adding another spanking blog to their links. One of the first people I emailed was Dana Specht, someone who I always looked up to and was inspired by her great content over the years, she’s also known on some websites as “The Queen of Discipline”. I sent her a nervous introductory email and honestly didn’t think I would get much back. The next day I found out that not only did she reply but she thought it was extremely awesome that I was a soldier and still trying to participate in the spanking community. That really made me feel good so we kept up a dialogue for a few weeks and needless to say we hit it off pretty well and became pretty good friends.
When Dana’s daughter Sarah Gregory came to visit her this past week I actually had a chance to email with Sarah few times as well. I’ve always been a huge fan of hers, and I remember seeing her on the site “Punished Brats” back in 2006 thinking that she was going to be someone very special in the community if she kept this up. Several years later, and Sarah is perhaps one of the most talented and hardest working spanking stars and models out there. Not only making appearances on some of the biggest spanking sites, but also running her own site “Sarah Gregory Spanking” which I think is quickly becoming one of the best sites out there for high quality spanking content.
So today, I received an email from my Aunt Dana (she even accepted me as her little nephew, so sweet!) that was titled “For Our Favorite Soldier” I smiled as I opened up the email and was amazed to see pictures of Dana and Sarah posing next to a “Support Our Troops” sign which appears to be in Dana’s back yard. I thought it was extremely special and made me smile big and feel good today. It was a good thing too because with everything going on lately here in The Stan, I’ve been stressed out to the max, and haven’t been able to smile much.
I thought I would share these pictures with you all and tell you how thankful I am to have support back home from wonderful people such as Dana and Sarah. Been truly blessed to be able to know them and thank you again ladies for making a soldier smile today! :)